Would you rather touch a snake or speak on a stage? I guess you're going with the snake. How do I know? Well, around 75% of the world's population would rather live with a snake than try public speaking. Yep! As surprising as it is, glossophobia–the fear of public speaking–is one of the most common fears in the world. Now that we know it's a little short of an epidemic let's discuss what is public speaking exactly. Is public speaking a skill? If yes, how to get better at it.
Public Speaking | Everything You Need to Know How many times have you heard a kid refusing to go to school because they have so and so presentations? We hear such incidents all the time, right? But, mostly, we presume kids are being kids. The shocking part is that even adults go through similar situations. Some even go to the lengths of changing professions to avoid speaking in public. Let's check out what is public speaking skill, so that we can understand them better.
What is Public Speaking?
As the term suggests, public speaking means speaking or delivering speeches in public. The meaning of this term majorly depends on the word "public." Please note that, here, public means audience. It may be one, two, or even fifty people; it's still public speaking. In other words, from making daily conversations with your siblings to standing on a stage, everything comes under public speaking. Public speaking is delivering a speech to convince an audience (one or more individuals) about a particular topic. It can be as unimportant as convincing your mom for a pizza dinner or talking about climate change at the UN.
Is Public Speaking a Skill? Yes, public speaking is a skill. Human languages are arbitrary–the words have no relation to their meanings. So, be it English, Sanskrit, or Tonga; one must learn it like a skill to speak it. Similarly, speaking the language in an effective way (the art of public speaking) is also a skill. Nobody is born with it but learns it gradually to become a good public speaker. As a matter of fact, there are many tips & tricks of public speaking that can make a person a better orator in no time. For instance, having the correct body language–eye contact, hand gestures, and facial expression–while speaking can help the audience grasp your speech effectively. Here's comparison table for you to understand how body language impacts your performance.
Body language | Horror Story | Patriotic Speech |
Eye Contact | Maintain eye contact | Maintain eye contact |
Facial Expression | Big round eyes, loud expressions, gasps, screams | Regular eyes, formal expression, no gasping or screaming |
Hand Gesture | Dramatic Hand gesture | Formal hand gesture (only a few times) As you saw in the above table, you can change the meaning of the story just with your eyes. Something may not be scary when written on paper, but with the proper facial expression, a speaker can scare anybody and everybody. |
As you saw in the above table, you can change the meaning of the story just with your eyes. Something may not be scary when written on paper, but with the proper facial expression, a speaker can scare anybody and everybody.
Is it a Soft Skill or a Hard Skill? And Why? Public speaking is BOTH— a soft skill and a hard skill. I will tell you why. The definition of soft skills is qualities or attributes, such as loyalty, enthusiasm, punctuality, and a strong work ethic, that someone has but may or may not display at work. In other words, soft skills are skills—character traits and professional attributes—that are valuable in developing interpersonal relationships at work.
Public Speaking is a Soft Skill
Public speaking or conversational skills are indeed something that you need to communicate with people at work. Now, if you take it as something that you should have by birth, it becomes a character trait. Earlier good conversational skills were something that came naturally to people. If somebody was a good speaker, it meant that was who they were. For instance, Gandhi. It was a skill/trait like cleanliness, honesty, punctuality, that helped to showcase your hard skills (that you are trained for) at work. It wasn't something that you could write on your CV/resume. Therefore, public speaking was considered as a soft skill.
Public Speaking is a Hard Skill
Now, let me take you through why public speaking skill is not a soft skill, but a hard skill.
Because you can be trained. Now, speaking skills are something that you can train yourself in. You may not be born with this skill, but you can always learn it. There are uncountable courses and diplomas out there. One doesn't have to be born with excellent speaking skills to become a good speaker. There are public speaking instructors, who can even train a shy person to become a brilliant orator.
Because it's a MUST to gain professional success. Soft skills are qualities that you may or may not display at work, but public speaking skills are mandatory. Even though there's not any hard-and-fast rule, you'll realize there is no future without good speaking traits. In other words, from getting hired to starting a business, one needs public speaking skills to succeed. Therefore, it's a hard skill.
Because it's a field of study. Public speaking, like hard skills such as dancing, singing, coding, etc., has a dedicated field of study. There are experts who have mastered it and learners who receive proper training. Therefore, public speaking is both a soft skill and a hard skill.
Key Pillars of Public Speaking Public speaking is a skill just like singing, dancing, painting, or even playing chess. If you know the basic elements/key pillars of public speaking skill, you can excel at it with a bit of practice. In case of speaking, the basic elements can be divided into two types–
While speaking
While writing
While Speaking While speaking, there are key elements that you must keep in mind to become a great public speaker.
Three basic elements of Public Speaking are:
Body Language
Voice
Confidence
Body Language
Body language means the language of the body. When you use your body parts to deliver a message to your audience, it means you're using body language. Please note that it may or may not be accompanied with words (non-verbal communication). For example, when your mom asks if you're sad by looking at your face. Here, your mom is receiving the message that you're sad through your body language. You're saying you're sad even without uttering any words. That's body language!
Body language can be improved by focusing on your:
Facial expression
Hand gestures
Eye contact
Voice Voice is the primary yet the most challenging element in public speaking. While delivering a speech in front of an audience, one must be loud enough to be audible without screaming or shouting at the top of their voice. On the other hand, storytelling requires a different manipulation of voice. Sometimes, it can be too quiet; again, sometimes, it can be as loud as screaming one's lungs out. In short, one must know how to manipulate their voice according to their content.
Things to learn to master Voice Modulation:
Change of pitch and pace
Inflection
Tone
Pauses
Emphasis
Confidence
Self-confidence is a vital ingredient in the making of a good speaker. If you perfect the above two points, I bet you're going to be the most confident speaker. But, there are still a few things that you can do to hide your nervousness on the stage/venue.
Tips to look confident on stage
Choose the right outfit
Dress according to the topic
Stand straight
Look into the eyes of the audience
Speak as if you're talking to the audience
While Writing
While writing a speech/story, there are three things that you must keep in mind to become a better speaker.
Key Pillars of Public Speaking while Writing are:
Ethos
Pathos
Logos